Thursday, June 21, 2012

Talking with a Veteran

All hospices are caring for veterans, whether they are identified or not.  Veterans at end-of-life sometimes have special needs. Awareness of  and attending to care of this population requires additional knowledge and sensitivity to the patient and their families..  In January 2010, Dennis Whall, a veteran active in support activities for fellow vets in Maine, presented some information to hospice professionals in Maine. Below are some of his suggestions:

SOME QUESTIONS TO ASK
  • first, thank for service
  • what branch of service
  • when did you go in and how old were you
  • were you drafted or did you volunteer
  • if enlisted, why did they choose that branch
  • any other in your family in the military-then or now
  • what was your rank
  • where did you go for Basic Training
  • do you remember your drill instructor (DI)
  • any humorous or memorable stories from Basic Training
  • what was your specialty (MOS-military occupation speciality)
  • how long were you in
  • where did you serve/ stationed
  • what was the name of your unit or ship
  • were you awarded any special badges or medals
  • have you kept in touch with any of your buddies

SOME OF THE QUESTIONS NOT TO ASK

  • did you kill anyone
  • were any of your buddies killed
  • what was it like
  • were you scared
  • what was the worst thing that happened
  • did you ever do anything that you regretted
  • do you think we should have been involved in the war